Along with the usage of random internet service - including informative , educative and productive social media and various sources , these words are so trending now to our newly introduced lifestyle,
And very strangely the way we are following lifestyle blog , lifestyle magazines , lifestyle reviews on internet , we are not focusing the same way on our own life .
Actually these are very common and trending words these days as very typically our overall life cycle is being changed knowingly or unknowingly along with our life clock . And in many cases , the situation goes on to be critical . This change is a common part of life along the with the structure based changes in economy , social , political , cultural and daily life schedule .
As per the statistical report and research papers from top rated scholars of top universities , these terminologies are not abstract at all , rather they are being the ultimate in most of the cases . They are being overlooked or not treated properly in time due to our ignorance and casual attititude to the basics of our mental health .
POSITIVE ATTITUDE -
* We are accepting the reality , that Various kind of psychological disorders are not imaginative and people are accepting the fact that many of them somehow are affected . Many are working on it with their best to sort out these problems .
** People are being introspective in many cases and can determine what to do or not .
*** Numberless motivational programs are being organized to bring out people from this problematic condition in both curative and preventive ways .
But very exactly how many of us getting treatment-resistant major depressive disorder ?
Even after so many efforts from various kind of Organization's Motivational Program through both online and off line structure , still our Psychological problems are going high and higher .
LIKE ----
1) Growing numbers of sociopath crime .
2) Growing numbers of sucidal trends among the young generations .
3) Cases of Frustration and loneliness , even after being literally secured .
4) Cases of being isolated or self detached from natural ongoing situations both without and with reasons .
# How can it be possible exactly when we are a bit of aware through Motivational Programs , Motivational Books , Motivational Speakers and lectures ? #
The answer is so simple - Giving vocal motivation , making some young motivated movers for a short time and conducting medical treatment under a proper medical observation - is not same at all . Had the Motivators could sort out your psychological crisis - then the toppers would not work so hard to be The Doctors , The Nurses , The Researchers and various kind of specialists with Degree.
Problematic motivational program =
It is good that some motivational programs are being
everywhere almost today either by spiritual readers or by some motivators too .
But the basic report is like that =
1)
In most of cases they generalize a factor , that is almost common
to all and they focus on it . So very naturally it never works on the
critical cases , as these cases need to
handled or treated through a very sensitive system and under the
observation of a registered and
authentic degree holder and professional , who would be legally processed .
2) In most of the cases , the problem is not detected and mentioned in pen and paper , rather various kind of promotion of products , including book, music and services are provided in exchange of money – neither these are proven way here by the registered experts , nor this system comes under the laws of consumer forum , even after the expense is done .
3) Motivational speaker and their programs are not bad at all in general . They keep enough authentic speech . But this speech can not be treated at all as “ Talk Therapy “ as they are not specialist and registered degree holder and they present it in general . But if you need special care , mainly medicinal treatment or kind of surgery , then we need to visit only specialized Psychologist first . In this type of cases time spending and early detection are the biggest factor.
When and why do you need a Doctor ?
Actually it is a good sign that , some areas of society or few people are coming out some social stigmas like ,
A ) A person with any kind of Psychological disorder is not a mad at all to be thrown out of the society . If someone is detected / suffered with any level of mental disorder , he / she has all the rights to live well like any other human being . Time is really tough for each one . So along with the situation and growing pressure in every aspects , some kind of psychological crisis is not a big factor at all - rather it is much much common and surely treatable . So we should be careful , but not so worried .
B) Unlike any of our other body parts or organs , our psychology may be unseen to open eyes , but perhaps it is the most vital functional system as it highly connected with total Neurological system , muscles and various kind of chemical related function within our body and all our activities are ultimately driven by overall Psychological formation , driven by Central Nervous System .
And like any other organ of our body , our
psychological structure can be disordered for and by something or
situation . So like the Heart , Kidney , Lungs our overall psychology can
be in a problematic condition and scientific ways and various kind of experts
like Doctor , Nurses and other medical staffs can treat the problem with
their abilities and experience . The more we discuss openly - many ways would be opened to us and we may also find our problem to be of many and it could be so common and easy to handle . So open minded discussion is a big factor .
C) All people are not same and each one has the basic right to drive his/her life as per own Psychological structure without harming anyone . In a civilized society if we claim us to be properly educated , we have no right to generalize anyone for different thinking or activities as " Unsocial or Crazy " like adjectives unless we are facing some reasonable problems because of someone .
Till today , most of the great persons never
were matched with common and ongoing social trends . Person with normal
thinking can normally be happy and rich , but person with abnormal qualities
may be treated as Talent , Genious and Prodigy sometimes.
# People with different thinking and activities are not air dropped from Mars . Still if anything goes really right or wrong – Doctors , Specialist and so many other Professionals are here to detect and direct . We are not the Authority to make conclusive point on anyone .#
TIMING -
Generally the problem never comes with the notice . But if you are much much lucky to be covered by a good company with family , friends , relatives , co-workers , partner , then they can notice your changes and will notify you very promptly . So this is the way for you to be knocked by others about your problems and you can visit a doctor .
One big issue of
disagree may arise here . We try to to show others as wrong and self to be
right all the ways .
No problem at all when
you think this way . If you think you are right and others are wrong ,
still you can visit the doctor to
clarify your thinking .
But if you are overall alone in life , then how can it be possible that others will knock you about your problem ?
The answer is not so simple . If you are alone these days , and can mark the people who are detached from you recently , but were attached with you very much previously - then there should be a doubt . Without any special incident if suddenly , you feel to alone or find people to leave you , then you should be careful as there might be a reason . Here you can visit a doctor to discuss or regular check up.
And what about that
person who is really and almost alone , like an orphan , who passed
his/her days in some shelter based school ? and then became educated and
right now doing the job or business and suddenly feels problems within own ?
This is a real hard life
and could be with psychological conflicts . Generally this kind of people
may be hyper active . They are either so soft or very hard to others as
per situation . " If without harming anyone , including the
self , if you can enjoy many things ( your choice may be changed from time to
time ) then in a general sense , naturally there should no problem .
But if you feel
much dramatic changes within very short period without any proper reason and
can not match up anyhow with something or someone or feel something
bitter , you should visit a doctor .
THINGS , YOU SHOULD NOT
TRY = Everything is free , specially when you are in critical
period . So numberless sources are here , specially in internet and
from the community where many of the people think to be the
specialist on each topic.
You should clearly avoid
them. ( You should not try any medicinal usage without any proper guideline ) .
These days sources are open and you can know many things . But knowing something never means allowing you to apply them anywhere , and in some cases , not even on own without any proper guideline from an expert .
Each and every profession needs efficiency , effort and dedication . But in Medical ground is not just like other profession . The overall system works between life and death .
A Doctor , a Nurse
, a Lab technician and so many other persons , related to medical service ,
they are not just working to treat us or to save us .
They were not born or they were not air dropped from Mars .
Generally they are the most brilliant students
in their academic life . They opted to be Doctor , Nurse and many other Medical
Staffs .
They scored the best
marks , qualified exams and then they started the hardest struggle . They read
the theories all the nights and after sleepless night they made practical
practices under their professors . Thus
they became the experts on their subject. They gave almost their
life to be here . So if they are here to save our life with all their
talents and efforts , then why should we gamble on our precious
life by self experiment ?
And generally most of
the psychological problems are not like sudden street accident , when you have
no time . Rather it is a long term matter and you have plenty of options
to select the right person in right time . So stop self experiment and visit a
Doctor ,if you face any problem to save
own life and make your family happy.
THANKS .
PROLAYSANKARDEYSVO
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