DESTINY IS NEVERLAND AND NEVERLAND IS DESTINY.
PEN- PROLAY .
INK-ANANYA.
MY WAY TO STUPIDITY -1
DEAR
FRIENDS , ,
If you just are caught with my caption - then hopefully my way is working . I must not be off a little even - rather I will be on a high to think on my ability to have you here to be on my way to share , " what actually I felt for most of the time in my early professional life and today how exactly do I feel happiness even being within various crisises ? "
And I faced this life without reading fanous lifestyle quotes or lifestyle blogs.
May be unluckily , as per the so called society and luckily as per my own , " I never had any fixed lifestyle and planning .This instinct was within me somehow from my early days . I just wanted to face it . Anyway it could be before me and then to direct or redirect my life as per situation. I really never thought to run behind a strong bank deposit , huge insurance policy , palace like house , luxury car ,etc and to be within so called scheduled life with so called social settled lifestyle .
May be unluckily , as per the so called society and luckily as per my own , " I never had any fixed lifestyle and planning .This instinct was within me somehow from my early days . I just wanted to face it . Anyway it could be before me and then to direct or redirect my life as per situation. I really never thought to run behind a strong bank deposit , huge insurance policy , palace like house , luxury car ,etc and to be within so called scheduled life with so called social settled lifestyle .
Rather I focused on a basic income of money , little cottage like house , a beautiful girlfriend , books , music and surely the silence to enjoy with common and basic senses of life in a lonely place as per own to use .
By profession these days, I am a trainer of English language and communication now. Side by side I am trying to work as language translator , paper writer too , to enjoy within my own . No doubt I get problems unlike many common , as many of them really differ from me .
By profession these days, I am a trainer of English language and communication now. Side by side I am trying to work as language translator , paper writer too , to enjoy within my own . No doubt I get problems unlike many common , as many of them really differ from me .
Many prefer fixed topics to discuss in a fixed way everyday . I am mismatched , as I am not a fixed one . Topics like translation , poetry , music and pets are more interesting to me than credit card , stock market , real estate investment and insurance plan .
But Even being with so many problems , now overall I enjoy my job . I have very strong interest to various language and literature , pets , specially to stray dogs.They way me to more and more ways to be with the flow of life through various aspects and surroundings . And they really work on me very well than any lifestyle magazine .
Today personally I think that the greatest way to enjoy the life means no effort at all to be established as per parameters , scheduled by so called society , but to change the parameter of so called society as per own with the self example of lifestyle defination .
I know to be a conflicting one . But to me , ' where there is no conflict , there is no life at all' .
Technically I struggle with numberless entities within me for my way .
I left my education just after the school to make real estate business with partner . For almost 2 years we worked for day and night and finally got a huge financial loss on back .
I left my education just after the school to make real estate business with partner . For almost 2 years we worked for day and night and finally got a huge financial loss on back .
But one great profit I gained from this chapter .
" FOR THE COMMON , THE ONE AND ONLY WAY TO SURVIVE , IS THE WAY OF EDUCATION " .
I came back to study on own earning-- it was so hard task to study without proper books , notes and guidelines and finally managing the time after working as Hawker , salesman , and what not really ?
So after graduation I got only two options before me for my future .
Either go on for higher study or urgently grabbing a private job .
I came back to study on own earning-- it was so hard task to study without proper books , notes and guidelines and finally managing the time after working as Hawker , salesman , and what not really ?
So after graduation I got only two options before me for my future .
Either go on for higher study or urgently grabbing a private job .
Very naturally I opted the second one for me personally , but ultimately a basic conflict stayed within me -
I started my so called professional life as a salesman in a Multinational Insurance company with a standard payout in corporate sector in 2007 . Basically the task was really tough one for me as I personally had no interest on financial calculation and finally I had to work the people for just describing that how their future could be lost anytime for not having a proper insurance plan , and on the contrary I had no personal plan for own life . It just was like scaring the people with imaginative story and channeling their money to corporate world . Still it was going with basic adjustment as the payout was well enough for me . I just was getting my confidence higher within me and I started to think for bigger .
I started to believe that , " I am born only to win and never to loose anyhow " .
I started to ignore all of my basic surroundings and drove my life to a certain state where , the place would be only for winners and every aspects of my life would be like the highly decorated corporate set up .
No doubt money played a vital role . I was being nicely entertained in hotel , shop and in such places , where services were only sold against money but not with any basic humane relationship or helping hands .
My purchasing capacity went higher . Either I was having something or started aiming to have something .
I realized that , " It was only the money what could give me everything " . I started to hate not only the failure , but even the failed people . And as per my parameter , either I was being hacked by the corporate style and efforting on my own to be fitted with that system or I was getting full of failed one and getting irritated with their existence in my uplifted life , I tagged them as ' Loosers ' in corporate terminology .
I realized that , " It was only the money what could give me everything " . I started to hate not only the failure , but even the failed people . And as per my parameter , either I was being hacked by the corporate style and efforting on my own to be fitted with that system or I was getting full of failed one and getting irritated with their existence in my uplifted life , I tagged them as ' Loosers ' in corporate terminology .
somehow I also started to believe like that , " I can be the next to someone like Bill Gates surely " and with my fully first person instincts . I started to be a hard risk taker - but very pathetically I just was risking my own ultimate entity without any basic security of standard human life . I was risking my pain , joy, and surely my ultimate freedom to stay free .
The journey was an ultimate tough one . For better payout and better position, I changed one after professional company along with my personal life companies . I faced technical success and failure too in that life . I was trained by the top rated corporate trainer to die for the success and to hate failure .
It was like the ' GARBAGE CLEARING OPERATION ' with my own life . Later , I felt that , it was like running behind the payout of powerball .
I discovered my girlfriend to be very backdated one in my relationship , as she had no interest about my job and she was focusing to be a traditional school teacher on her subject applied Physcis . My words were like that " what could be the ultimate future if the corporate world does not finance in such a research " ?
I discovered my girlfriend to be very backdated one in my relationship , as she had no interest about my job and she was focusing to be a traditional school teacher on her subject applied Physcis . My words were like that " what could be the ultimate future if the corporate world does not finance in such a research " ?
I felt my best friend , who spent numberless sleepless nights for my family in hospital - now to be mismatched with my culture, as he was least eager to know the corporate culture . " what could be his value if he can not evaluate his own life " ?
NICELY I WAS BEING A PURE CORPORATE PERSON THROUGH PROPER CORPORATE TRAINING ......................................
I got my first shock when , The doctor asked me to go under some critical clinical test for my long term illness and suggested ' a minimum rest ' .
My well dressed up manner , standard lifestyle , corporate culture - every aspects of my life just were blown up , when my Boss knocked me , " either accept 7 days off / give your resign letter here , you are here to work , not to be the paid like puppet ".
My well dressed up manner , standard lifestyle , corporate culture - every aspects of my life just were blown up , when my Boss knocked me , " either accept 7 days off / give your resign letter here , you are here to work , not to be the paid like puppet ".
It was shocking - might be like the thunder on me . I felt helpless more than a homeless or begger .
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I discovered myself in a newer way within my backdated girlfriend , my avoided friend and my uncultured family and relatives . I just got huge mental support from them , whom I thought to be like something " Bogus " . This was a lesson that I started to have the people as elements , and I personified the elements as living one . I did not know that out of the decorated corporate house , the system was still going with very basic concept of very common people and that system was far better in fundamental structure than the very new born terminology like corporatocracy .
I came back to my previous job and passion . It was teaching literature and listening music and reading various categorical books . But this time I started with some very basic books on economics , political science and history . I got no problem with my decision and on the contrary my boss , who introduced me corporate sector and wayed me to uncertain jobless ground , he was also not wrong on his point .
Ultimately what , he told me , it was the same quote what he was to listen - today or tomorrow . Today I respect him with kindness , instead of any hatred . He was also to be the same puppet in this game someday .
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I discovered myself in a newer way within my backdated girlfriend , my avoided friend and my uncultured family and relatives . I just got huge mental support from them , whom I thought to be like something " Bogus " . This was a lesson that I started to have the people as elements , and I personified the elements as living one . I did not know that out of the decorated corporate house , the system was still going with very basic concept of very common people and that system was far better in fundamental structure than the very new born terminology like corporatocracy .
I came back to my previous job and passion . It was teaching literature and listening music and reading various categorical books . But this time I started with some very basic books on economics , political science and history . I got no problem with my decision and on the contrary my boss , who introduced me corporate sector and wayed me to uncertain jobless ground , he was also not wrong on his point .
Ultimately what , he told me , it was the same quote what he was to listen - today or tomorrow . Today I respect him with kindness , instead of any hatred . He was also to be the same puppet in this game someday .
One common strategical point was found everywhere , every time and within every circle . Common sense is not so common among the common very commonly . And this is the area , from where the commons are are having the setback throughout the ages . So very naturally " THE STATE POWER IS GENERALLY WITH THE RICH PEOPLE AND THEY BUILD A CRUEL NEXUS TO VICTIMIZE THE REST OF THE PART OF SOCIETY FOR THEIR OWN END ".
Common people are here to be the connector between state power and rich people to match the basic " 3P FACTORS. ".
These 3P are -
1st p= profit.
2nd p= profit.
3rd p = profit.But whose profit ?
I really do not know at all that answer even today .
But today now I think those days were not just a good experience for me , but to me it was like extremely active eye opener . I discovered myself within an illusion and today I realize that this type of life with extremely hyper activity without any proper direction , guidelines , and finally no proper usage of " STANDARD INTERNATIONAL LABOUR LAWS " could lead anyone to the area of critical loneliness , typical differential trauma , internal phobia , rational thinking disorder , sleep disorder ,generalized anxiety disorder, , obsessive compulsive personality disorder , post traumatic disorder and ultimately to the biggest loss of human life , which is just nothig but na number to others after death except near and dear one .
I started to focus on some very common and natural facts of life and as I started to ask myself in very simple way __________________
1 ) " Why most of the medicinal elements are from Africa and Latin america and people are living there without standard medical support " ?
2 ) " If facing hardships are the only way to betterment then why most of freedom fighters die before their country gets freedom ? why in the Army one after one particular generations and families are being victimized in almost every country and on the contrary power games are going on like scripted movie within very few and limited categorical people " ?
The answer is a bit simple today . In " African union " most of countries are protesting against the " FOREIGN DONATION " - or better to tag it " CIVILIZED EUROPEAN INVESTMENT " as the Africans are being more confident on the very natural parameter of development , like vast land area matched with population , top class natural resources and finally extremely hard working human resources , which was deported almost to whole world for enlightening the civilization and on the contrary Africa remained under darkness even today as they were 50 years ago .
So ultimately today I know the basic fact of my life --" This so called social system will never direct me to an area , where I can have my best , as the best one is not at all for common , but the common people have their basic and fundamental right to stay like uncommon at least for their best without harming anyone "
So from my daily basis experience I came to a certain point that , throughout the life , through many systems and activities - including me , a doctor, a police officer, a struggler , a sex worker - with no difference were running behind an abstract criteria which may or may not be within our grip at all and very pathetically even today . And we are just ignoring the realities before us and surrendering ourselves to a state of illussion.
Before the society all were really very different profile with fully different social, economical, educational and etc like basic ground . But to be very frank and true , I technically got almost all of them with very one specific entity .
I faced a lot of conflict throughout my life and through various ways on my own choice . And it is actually at such a level , that sometimes I really can not sequence at all my yesterday, today and would be tomorrow and it is more tough then to fix any one of my entity to be my own as I find it is somehow a tune of others through my voice .
I think many of the top class rated industrialists , author like Sydney Porter , leader like Nelson Mandela , James blunt like singer who started professional life as something and many more very common class people , really do not have any idea about their certain destination . Even when it is well planned for future , it could be like a mess just after a natural disaster or mass movement or any war . So here I get my own entity between them , who planned it for very well to be on uncertain destination and who stayed certain to remain cool about uncertain destination .
So basically for me I found no way to so called standard sociological success as the connected term " betterment" - has no proper and standard dimension.
1) should I accept the life as it appears time to time or should I run for success ?
Today success is fully abstract and it may differs not only with people along with their fundamental grounds like social reputation , financial causality , educational ground and surely with social tag , like nationality , community , religion , culture etc , but the tragedy is that even a very minimum sudden shock to any these described structure can change the total concept of these so called success , reputation or something else just within a moment , and very painfully many people may just forget about their ultimate entity and very pathetically it may lead to all sort of disasters for life time.
As the total concept of success, failure, and betterment are without any fixed parameter , so as the way people can upgrade the judgement level time to time as per their own, samely on the contrary , any changing in judgemental process may lead us to set back and this level may be out of hand , if we willingly or unwillingly are anyhow misguided.
2) should I stand as a thinking animal and react to situation to stay better ?
May be co-incidentally I came to touch with so many motivating books along with so many highly motivated people, very personally not only I read them one after one , but in my own practical life , I did almost everything as was guided. Very automatically and unknowingly my bohemian entity somehow got tracked with the very common thought, " yes , I can win ".
The answer is a bit simple today . In " African union " most of countries are protesting against the " FOREIGN DONATION " - or better to tag it " CIVILIZED EUROPEAN INVESTMENT " as the Africans are being more confident on the very natural parameter of development , like vast land area matched with population , top class natural resources and finally extremely hard working human resources , which was deported almost to whole world for enlightening the civilization and on the contrary Africa remained under darkness even today as they were 50 years ago .
So ultimately today I know the basic fact of my life --" This so called social system will never direct me to an area , where I can have my best , as the best one is not at all for common , but the common people have their basic and fundamental right to stay like uncommon at least for their best without harming anyone "
So from my daily basis experience I came to a certain point that , throughout the life , through many systems and activities - including me , a doctor, a police officer, a struggler , a sex worker - with no difference were running behind an abstract criteria which may or may not be within our grip at all and very pathetically even today . And we are just ignoring the realities before us and surrendering ourselves to a state of illussion.
Before the society all were really very different profile with fully different social, economical, educational and etc like basic ground . But to be very frank and true , I technically got almost all of them with very one specific entity .
Ultimately all were running behind a very specific and fundamental structure - " BETTERMENT ".
But to be very true and clear to the point and applying them on own life first , is never an easy task at all . There are inner and self conflicts , critical situations , uncountable provocations and unjustified people to resist us from thinking , what we can really do and what we should not do at all . I faced a lot of conflict throughout my life and through various ways on my own choice . And it is actually at such a level , that sometimes I really can not sequence at all my yesterday, today and would be tomorrow and it is more tough then to fix any one of my entity to be my own as I find it is somehow a tune of others through my voice .
I think many of the top class rated industrialists , author like Sydney Porter , leader like Nelson Mandela , James blunt like singer who started professional life as something and many more very common class people , really do not have any idea about their certain destination . Even when it is well planned for future , it could be like a mess just after a natural disaster or mass movement or any war . So here I get my own entity between them , who planned it for very well to be on uncertain destination and who stayed certain to remain cool about uncertain destination .
All of them either were working for filling the stomach for today or they were gathering tomorrow , which is ultimately uncertain to all . I mean they just were focusing for their overall betterment as per their own parameter. Very technically this one single word " betterment " is ultimate multi dimensional - so to be very logically it has no actual standard and fixed acceptable parameter to generalize all in one same row .
One of the highly used word of these days -" success " is deeply connected with that very particular word " betterment". If success is the way to betterment, or betterment is the way to success- then if one of them is not fixed at all , then how the other can be with fixed structure ?
So basically for me I found no way to so called standard sociological success as the connected term " betterment" - has no proper and standard dimension.
Very naturally I had to pick my choice .
1) should I accept the life as it appears time to time or should I run for success ?
Today success is fully abstract and it may differs not only with people along with their fundamental grounds like social reputation , financial causality , educational ground and surely with social tag , like nationality , community , religion , culture etc , but the tragedy is that even a very minimum sudden shock to any these described structure can change the total concept of these so called success , reputation or something else just within a moment , and very painfully many people may just forget about their ultimate entity and very pathetically it may lead to all sort of disasters for life time.
As the total concept of success, failure, and betterment are without any fixed parameter , so as the way people can upgrade the judgement level time to time as per their own, samely on the contrary , any changing in judgemental process may lead us to set back and this level may be out of hand , if we willingly or unwillingly are anyhow misguided.
To be very true and personally , I am recently facing a critical pocket and I realize it to be more psychological than financial . I am not getting that way to set the level of my success being within common and ongoing social structure . society has a natural trend to tag anything or anyone as unsocial or anti-social , if they are found to be a different and if they are not matched with the ongoing social parameter or somehow if it could spoil the set up , from where the minimum are just sucking the maximum people .
From my own experience I saw many people just to cry for earning very little amount of money , so that they may try to live with the minimum and basic rights , what should be even for animals to be on this earth . On the contrary at the same time some people are repenting as they only earned the money to set the life and today life set them on such a state , where the amount is nothing but digit to them . It may sound very much paradoxical , but to be very fixed on this point you just can go out of your comfortable cabin and meet the community , wherever you feel mentally free.
In my own life I personally experienced one of the most typical face of success like in the form of a well planned and very skillful movie show . Now even today I do not realize if it was my illussion or my concious activity ? whatever it could be , but is never beyond the time and space.
2) should I stand as a thinking animal and react to situation to stay better ?
I did so many things to earn. Better it to say like , what did I not to earn ? The list is long. In short I just can confirm that , from a cosmetics seller to underpaid private school teacher , assisting in the making of post graduate level note to a service boy - nothing was untouched , if it came to the way I liked . Very surely one plus point was always with me , and that is not having any so called prestigious issue what is highly connected with so called social set up . Along with job and my life , my ways were also so never sticky to any certain type of people. I met almost many categorical people - from highly reputed doctor to so called cheap rated sex workers , from strict and ethical police officer to the homeless people . I got a typical experience among the people .
people with overall secured lifestyle were highly anxious about their life and some people without almost nothing , stayed with stable psychological state .
people with overall secured lifestyle were highly anxious about their life and some people without almost nothing , stayed with stable psychological state .
It was really a matter of anxiety that I noticed the trend , that standard lifestyle was not enough for mental stability and on the contrary lifestyle below the standard quality was at an amount for having mental stability - even when ultimate destination was almost unknown to all .
I with my own and full active brain , tag it as " illusion" as it somehow made me forgetting about some very easy and universal but paradoxically capping questions. I never asked myself that time , " if hardwork is the only to success and it has the ability to change situations, then why on the same earth the Africans who are extremely hardworking and also with basic humanity, are getting the setback throughout the ages ? why still Africa is one of the largest food productive area and most of their people are with empty stomach , when most of the top rated brands are there investing there just on very specific ground of food corps " ?
May be co-incidentally I came to touch with so many motivating books along with so many highly motivated people, very personally not only I read them one after one , but in my own practical life , I did almost everything as was guided. Very automatically and unknowingly my bohemian entity somehow got tracked with the very common thought, " yes , I can win ".
Nothing was wrong unless I questioned myself , " yes I can win , but against whom ?"
Exactly where can I win ? victory over my ongoing inner conflict ? victory over my relationship or break up ? victory over my destiny ? victory over my financial crisis , which is very dangerously connected with ongoing situation on education , health , safety and security of the common living with me in the same society , country and finally globally "?
SO VERY NATURALLY I HAD TO COME TO SOME POINTS , WHICH COULD BE MY MILESTONES TO FOLLOW FOR MY MINIMUM PEACEFUL AND SATISFIED LIFE ?
OR
WILL IT BREAK THE BLACK HOLE THEORY ?
Almost in every cases the answer came like no , not and finally never.
I scanned on my own over and over again and got no wrong as really anything was wrong at all except my vision. I never even tried to get the very basic but both terminologically and fundamentally huge differences between two very simple words ------------- INSPIRATION AND MOTIVATION .
**But in my own case it happened exactly opposite. From what I thought it to be. I just was getting what I was trying to avoid within my own entity .
Countries like Denmark , Norway, Japan are focusing today mostly on the personal psychological wellness of their citizens . And organization like UN also today is ranking the countries on parameter like MENTAL HAPPINESS , and its too not depending on financial ability .
Or even with all my effort if this kind typical victory comes to me, then what about its durability ?
Inspiration is long way to be formed to the ultimate level of wellness with positive motive and activity. , But motivation is just not only is for short term and but has a natural trend to be on two opponent direction like good and evil power . Planned and misuse of motivation by the wrong people may lead to dangerous point and very exactly for it , " MOTIVATED CRIME " is one of the top used word in science like Criminology.
It is today a fact that thousands of motivational books are on high sale mode and many of them are ranking even as the best seller every year. If many people are getting their desired way through these books , then its not only right but should be more and more.
One big blunder was here within my own thought- and that was to not be aware of my ultimate destination . so very naturally just one after one door was nicely before me to step in when others were getting closed .
OPTION IS OPEN TOO-----
But in the mean time I got a clear difference between inspiration and motivation as well as success and wellness. Today "WELLNESS " is also one of the mostly used word, and thousands of scholars are not only working on it through world class organization , but very surprisingly they are more focusing on psychological wellness than structured wealth .
One big blunder was here within my own thought- and that was to not be aware of my ultimate destination . so very naturally just one after one door was nicely before me to step in when others were getting closed .
OPTION IS OPEN TOO-----
But in the mean time I got a clear difference between inspiration and motivation as well as success and wellness. Today "WELLNESS " is also one of the mostly used word, and thousands of scholars are not only working on it through world class organization , but very surprisingly they are more focusing on psychological wellness than structured wealth .
My answer is so simple . I try to earn to feed my stomach and I try to learn to feed my soul .
Countries like Denmark , Norway, Japan are focusing today mostly on the personal psychological wellness of their citizens . And organization like UN also today is ranking the countries on parameter like MENTAL HAPPINESS , and its too not depending on financial ability .
PRODUCTIVITY AND FINANCIAL PROFIT-LOSS.-- For people with even very minimum merit , it is easy to realize that "PRODUCTIVITY " is linked the word 'PRODUCT " - and with wrong setup which may be very well planned too with the nexus between " RICH COMMUNITIES AND STATE POWER " - our total human entity may be treated as "PRODUCT " anytime , anywhere .
But in my own personal life I was facing people to smile, passing time with friends, having jokes with husband and wife even with little money, even without having any basic knowledge about critical terminology like finance, politics, terrorism , capitalism and so on......
students were doing math either to just pass out or for higher education.
Lovers were writing poetry not really for scoring and not for Nobel prize, rather just to express their own and impress the partner .
Not each one at all was sitting with motivational books , not each one was being trained within corporate cabin even without knowing what for they were being trained for .
But very surprisingly still many of them were not only just happy , but they were flying like the butterfly as if they had no limitation.
Yes, I got them to be with basic need , but they were not needy at all for any psychological motivation or yoga session to reach their end and I think they had the great ability to fix up their own end by their own as per own need - and never the end was set by others , vastly to say by the ongoing common social concept of success.
And these so called poor and non established people got the real success as most of them do need medication or meditation to sleep .
Lovers were writing poetry not really for scoring and not for Nobel prize, rather just to express their own and impress the partner .
Not each one at all was sitting with motivational books , not each one was being trained within corporate cabin even without knowing what for they were being trained for .
But very surprisingly still many of them were not only just happy , but they were flying like the butterfly as if they had no limitation.
Yes, I got them to be with basic need , but they were not needy at all for any psychological motivation or yoga session to reach their end and I think they had the great ability to fix up their own end by their own as per own need - and never the end was set by others , vastly to say by the ongoing common social concept of success.
And these so called poor and non established people got the real success as most of them do need medication or meditation to sleep .
I was just surprised to have the people to enjoy, to laugh and love , to love and die so easily.
I may be wrong, but slowly I started to believe that success is not what others can see very easily about me , but it can be felt like any other common feelings within my deeper self . Its not just having a big house and spending sleepless night there by planning about next schedule , rather sometimes to stay with some basic needs and having enough drinks . sometimes having long time sex with partner in a lovely place , or sitting somewhere all alone to read books and listening music . or even if I do not have any girl friend just at the time , then keeping the head onto the lap of beautiful picked up lady and listening to her hidden story without caring at all about what the society would be thinking .
To me success is not today only like the currency to save for the upcoming and unknown future, but its like a continious and spontinious flow of passion to taste slowly and having lost somewhere to rediscover the self over and over again with new and newer entity.
To me success is not today only like the currency to save for the upcoming and unknown future, but its like a continious and spontinious flow of passion to taste slowly and having lost somewhere to rediscover the self over and over again with new and newer entity.
Later to confirm my views I met psychologists, doctor from different sector too, some monks ,father of the church , professors and so on...... On very basic points like life, success, and wellness may be their personal opinion was differing from head to head and time to time as all of them were from different stages and also were heading to their own and different destination. But on one very certain point their views were almost same and it just was very very crystal clear.
"Without harming anyone if I do something and think myself to be a happy one - that could be really a part of mental happiness and whatever may I have without this mental happiness , the structure of success is almost de-structured.."
So to me now its very easy to live. I just live to live. I live to love. And I love to leave whenever my partner feels uneasy with me.
.For own mental support I keep some basic information about some famous people.
1) HITLER and EVA BROWN committed self- killing . ( POWER IS TEMPORARY ).
2) Most of the Parents want their child to be like EINSTAIN , but never like NICOLE TESLA. ( THE BETTER IS NOT FOR ALL ).
3) WHITNEY HOUSTON died in a hotel and MICHAEL JACKSON died almost alone and in both cases the reason is yet to be recognized. ( FINALLY NONE WILL BE THERE EVEN IF YOU ARE FAMOUS AND RICH ).
4) MAUPASSANT got many of his creative concepts from the experience of passing time with prostitute. ( NONE IS BAD , EXCEPT OUR VIEWS ).
5) RABINDRANATH TAGORE passed a long time alone to think and think. (LONELYNESS IS ALSO EFFECTIVE TO KNOW OUR INNER-SELF).
6) CARL MARKS developed his theory just sitting within BRITISH IMPERIAL LIBRARY. (ACTUALLY NO PLACE IS FIXED FOR PARTICULAR ANYONE ).
7) EINSTAIN , SATYAJIT ROY , AND SO MANY like great thinkers married their own cousin sister. ( IN RELATIONSHIP INNER INSTINCT IS MORE VITAL SOCIAL STRUCTURE.)
8) NICOLE used to date only and never married, along with it TESLA destroyed many of his own works just with the fear to be misused of them by greedy political leaders and he also mentioned himself to be the scientist for next generation . ( SO MANY WAYS ARE OPEN TO EARN MONEY AND FAME - NEVER MEANS YOU ARE BOUND TO THAT ) .
9) Famous singer + writer + music director JAMES BLUNT was a fighter jet commander following the way of his father and grand father and worked long time in NATO. ( NONE KNOWS ABOUT WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO LIFE ).
10 ) G. B.SHAW was under huge pressure for his view on so called nationalism and social structure and today thousands of world class scholars and top rated political leaders are trying to stand on his view. .( IT IS NOT THE PUBLIC, BUT TIME WILL SPEAK THE TRUTH ).
Above named persons are top rated talent of their time and to the world even today they are with same value.
So after spotting the examples it could be possible , that you may think me to be a bit of arrogant and baseless as their talent and activities are beyond the question and on the contrary I am so little even to raise a question.
But to be very true and to the point I am really so limited . I am even none to follow them . I am just exampling them . . But not only they are , If somehow I think if we can eye on thousands of very very common people just walking around us , living with us and anyhow they are connected with us , we may rediscover an inner entity within them with different stories and ending . Not all of their endings are very exact as they wanted them to be . but still throughout the world and throughout the ages numberless people are just ignoring the ongoing thinking for they have the final guts to be and stand alone. Very surely all of them are not talented , rich , famous and surely are not born to be too. Rather many of them are ending their journey which could be a nice one , but in the midway very pathetically. they ended where exactly they ought not be at all - on the other side their sad ending never means who are on the truck , designed by the society , will have a nice rosy and shiny ending.
Rather in my opinion " its really better to set a newer surroundings for own with ownership , than to compromise with others being against own and under their control".
So now what about me ? Am I the happy one ? Am I not suffering from problems ? Am I the free one to do anything ?
The answer gonna be surely 'NOT '.
So what is the ultimate result of such a bogus topic ?
I learnt how to avoid the debt , where within the corporate leaders want me to be . I learnt how to use non branded clothes . I learnt how to
sleep just on wooden bed . I learnt very finally no bank savings , no social reputation , no palace will be working on except my self and inner instinct , which might not be possible for me to know properly. So now I am living a life without any visual parameter , no such think it to be not so dangerous , if all the time I spend my life just with planning to face dangerous future and before the tomorrow comes, just on today the world goes destructed or I personally start to my destiny.
So ultimately life would be the projection - but never the presentation.
big planning , and surely not so worried about future . It may sound really dangerous , but .....
THANKS - S.V.O
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I also look at the life in a perspective very similar to yours.
I believe we have only one life. The dreams, aspirations have to be met before death only.
Follow your passion, Money will also follow.
Keep rocking.