Along with the usage of random internet service - including informative , educative and productive social media and various sources , these words are so trending now to our modern lifestyle.
Very strangely the way we are following lifestyle blog , lifestyle magazines , lifestyle reviews on internet , we are not focusing the same way on our own life .
Actually these are very common and trending words these days as very typically our overall life cycle is being changed knowingly or unknowingly along with our life clock . And in many cases , the situation goes on to be critical . This change is a common part of life along the with the structural changes in economy , social , political , cultural and daily life schedule .
As per the statistical report and research papers from top rated scholars of top universities , these terminologies are not abstract at all , rather they are being the ultimate in most of the cases .Rather they are being overlooked or not treated properly in time due to our ignorance and casual attititude to the basics of our mental health .
POSITIVE ATTITUDE -
* We are accepting the reality ,that Various kind of psychological disorders are not imaginative and people are accepting the fact that many of them somehow are affected . Many are working on it with their best to sort out these problems .
** People are being introspective in many cases and can determine what to do or not .
***Numberless motivational programs,self-help, personality development program , self improvement , etc are being organized to bring out people from this problematic condition in both curative and preventive ways by motivational trainer, motivational speaker , motivational books etc .
But very exactly how many of us getting treatment-resistant against major psychological disorder ?
Even after so many efforts from various kind of Organization's Motivational Program through both online and off line structure , still our Psychological problems are going high and higher .
LIKE ----
1) Growing numbers of sociopath crime .
2) Growing numbers of sucidal trends among the young generations .
3) Cases of Frustration and loneliness ,even after being literally secured .
4) Cases of being isolated or self detached from natural ongoing situations both without and with reasons .
# How can it be possible exactly when we are a bit of aware through Motivational Programs, Motivational Books , Motivational Speakers and lectures ? #
The answer is so simple - Giving verbal motivation , making some short term motivated people and conducting medical treatment after medical digonsis under a medical observation - is not same at all . Had the Motivators could sort out your psychological crisis - then the toppers would not work so hard to be The Doctors , The Nurses , The Researchers and various kind of medical experts with Degree.
Problematic motivational program =
It is good that some motivational programs are being everywhere almost today either by spiritual readers or by some motivators too .
But the basic report is like that =
1) In most of cases they generalize a factor , that is almost common to all and they focus on it . So very naturally it never works on the critical cases , as these cases need to handled or treated through a very sensitive system and under the observation of a registered and authentic degree holder and professional , who would be legally processed .
2)In most of the cases , the problem is not detected and mentioned in pen and paper , rather various kind of like motivatioal book, calming music, webniar and services are promoted through affiliate marketting or B2B method in exchange of money – neither these are proven way here by the registered experts , nor this system comes under the laws of consumer forum , even after the expense is done .
3) Motivational speaker and their programs are not bad at all in general . They keep enough authentic speech . But this speech can not be treated at all as “ Talk Therapy “ as they are not specialist and registered degree holder and they present it in general . But if you need special care , mainly medicinal treatment . Then we need to visit only specialized Psychologist first . In this type of cases time spending and early detection are the biggest factor.
When and why do you need a Doctor ?
Actually it is a good sign that , some areas of society or few people are coming out some social stigmas like ,
A ) A person with any kind of Psychological disorder is not a mad at all to be thrown out of the society . If someone is detected / suffered with any level of mental disorder , he / she has all the rights to live well like any other human being . Time is really tough for each one . So along with the situation and growing pressure in every aspects , some kind of psychological crisis is not a big factor at all - rather it is much much common and surely treatable . So we should be careful , but not so worried .
B) Unlike any of our other body parts or physiological organs , our psychology may be unseen to open eyes , but perhaps it is the most vital functional system as it highly connected with total Neurological system , muscles and various kind of chemical related function within our body and all our activities are ultimately driven by overall Psychological formation , driven by Central Nervous System .
And like any other organ of our body , our psychological structure can be disordered for and by something or situation . So like the Heart , Kidney , Lungs our overall psychology can be in a problematic condition and scientific ways and various kind of experts like Doctor , Nurses and other medical staffs can treat the problem with their abilities and experience . The more we discuss openly - many ways would be opened to us and we may also find our problem to be of many and it could be so common and easy to handle . So open minded discussion is a big factor .
C) All people are not same and each one has the basic right to drive his/her life as per own Psychological structure without harming anyone . In a civilized society if we claim us to be properly educated , we have no right to generalize anyone for different thinking or activities as " Unsocial or Crazy " like adjectives unless we are facing some reasonable problems because of someone .
Till today , most of the great persons never were matched with common and ongoing social trends . Person with normal thinking can normally be happy and rich , but person with abnormal qualities may be treated as Talent , Genious and Prodigy sometimes.
# People with different thinking and activities are not air dropped from Mars . Still if anything goes really right or wrong – Doctors , Specialist and so many other Professionals are here to detect and direct . We are not the Authority to make conclusive point on anyone .#
TIMING -
Generally the problem never comes with the notice . But if you are much much lucky to be covered by a good company with family , friends , relatives , co-workers , partner , then they can notice your changes and will notify you very promptly . So this is the way for you to be knocked by others about your problems and you can visit a doctor .
One big issue of disagree may arise here . We try to to show others as wrong and self to be right all the ways .
No problem at all when you think this way . If you think you are right and others are wrong , still you can visit the doctor to clarify your thinking .
But if you are overall alone in life , then how can it be possible that others will knock you about your problem ?
The answer is not so simple . If you are alone these days , and can mark the people who are detached from you recently , but were attached with you very much previously - then there should be a doubt . Without any special incident if suddenly , you feel to alone or find people to leave you , then you should be careful as there might be a reason . Here you can visit a doctor to discuss or regular check up.
And what about that person who is really and almost alone , like an orphan , who passed his/her days in some shelter based school ? and then became educated and right now doing the job or business and suddenly feels problems within own ?
This is a real hard life and could be with psychological conflicts . Generally this kind of people may be hyper active . They are either so soft or very hard to others as per situation . " If without harming anyone , including the self , if you can enjoy many things ( your choice may be changed from time to time ) then in a general sense , naturally there should no problem .
But if you feel much dramatic changes within very short period without any proper reason and can not match up anyhow with something or someone or feel something bitter , you should visit a doctor .
THINGS , YOU SHOULD NOT TRY = Everything is free , specially when you are in critical period . So numberless sources are here , specially in internet and from the community where many of the people think to be the specialist on each topic.
You should clearly avoid them. ( You should not try any medicinal usage without any medical prescription ) .
These days sources are open and you can know many things . But knowing something never means allowing you to apply them anywhere , and in some cases , not even on own without any proper guideline from an expert .
Each and every profession needs efficiency , effort and dedication . But in Medical ground is not just like other profession . The overall system works between life and death .
A Doctor , a Nurse , a Lab technician and so many other persons , related to medical service , they are not just working to treat us or to save us .
They were not born or they were not air dropped from Mars .
Generally they are the most brilliant students in their academic life . They opted to be Doctor , Nurse and many other Medical Staffs .
They scored the best marks , qualified exams and then they started the hardest struggle . They read the theories all the nights and after sleepless night they made practical practices under their professors . Thus they became the experts on their subject. They gave almost their life to be here . So if they are here to save our life with all their talents and efforts , then why should we gamble on our precious life by self experiment ?
And generally most of the psychological problems are not like sudden street accident , when you have no time . Rather it is a long term matter and you have plenty of options to select the right person in right time . So stop self experiment and visit a Doctor ,if you face any problem to save own life and make your family happy.
THANKS .
PROLAYSANKARDEYSVO
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