PEN-PROLAY.
INK-ANANYA.
S.V.O
KEYS TO STAY HAPPY
Is it really possible for anyone to secure the life like a "lifestyle store " with a life insurance properly for own or not ?
Do we insure the possible financial value of a life span or not ?
I personally think that , neither we can evaluate properly our life , nor a life can be judged with only possible calculated value of money .
Still we need life insurance , we need a good financial planning to spend our life . When we face crisis , then in some cases , we try to recover with some financial loans .
We need a good home , basic and quality education , medical treatment . Then in the next level we need to be with trendy fashion to catch other's eye , we need to travel as a part of standard lifestyle for standard entertainment .
No doubt , all these are essential for our lifestyle reviews and better to say that for a healthy lifestyle .
But what is essential for our death ?
Our answer could be anything as it is a reality that we all know about the death to come in anyway . So what could be our preventive steps to delay the death ?
Do we need to visit the doctor regularly and make a health check up ?
Do we need maximum good food ?
Do we need to be highly concious about anything dangerous ?
My answer is may be or may not be , too .
So very ultimately what is lifestyle defination ?
In my opinion , whatever the drawbacks , we face in our life - is a kind of conceptual death to our natural instinct due to our wrong lifestyle leading way .
Not having the standard financial backup is a kind of death to our mental stability .
Not having the basic education is a kind of death to our mental health .
Not being treated well by others is a kind of death to our mental stability .
So whatever we do to live , is a death to our negativities and whatever we do to prevent or cover the death , is a kind of positivity to our life .
I think that , to be aware of a standard lifestyle cycle -we need to come out from the general conceptual life and death and take a broader view on both to ballance between our do and do not now in the age of digital lifestyle.
No doubt , this task is not just hard , but a conflicting one , as we need to judge the life and death in both physical and broader psychological perspective .
Pathetically , we live in a time now , when we all are aware of psychological factors like ego , depression , low confidence , shortage of thinking ability and still we care more on physical demand like luxury cars , big home , useless strong financial base and numberless things like these .
So , making a strong and clear clarifiation con our inner and outer instinct and entity is not less easier than finding a goldmine.
So , before as a lifestyle blogger, I try to discover the ultimate and secret way to find a standard lifestyle blog and lifestyle magazines for own to follow as a lifestyle blogger, I should be a bit of concentrated , informative and conclussive about my own internal and external entity and thinking way along with my present state of my life .
From my own life , I can assure that , I am penning down topic after facing so many real life categorical problems and it is true that , my problems are still on in my life even after being enough carefull .
Among them , some have been solved , some are being tried to solved and a major part is left to be compromised with time and situations . I accepted one basic point for me , that , life is not all about to drive as per own , rather there might be some areas , where I have to adjust . And not just adjusting , rather I need to be compromised too .
The word "" is really a great conflicting one .
Firstly , what level of compromisation can be done by me ?
Secondly , what kind of compromisation is going on from my end ? Am I compromising with me to match with traditional and ongoing system or am I compromisising with the surrounding system to match myself ?
The question may be ultimately same and the answer would be almost same in both ways . But the perspective of this question and answer could be highly impacting on one's internal psychology .
And thirdly , what could be the liner difference of my activities on the basis of " COMPROMISE AND SACRIFICE" ?
All these questions came to me one after one and in case , I was rediscovering myself in a newer category and each time " the defination of life and lifestyle " was getting changed fundamentally .
Everywhere , I faced one single wrod , " Problem " to be the game changer in the changing game . Then a time came , when I realized , but could not adjust me properly even today with the cruel fact .
That is ,
I am not the to be the victim of all problems . Apart from my problems , numberless people are facing numberless bigger problems than me .
I knew and had so many theoritical ideas about the life and standard lifestyle . But I got no proper way to harmonize them , untill I focused on my own . I am not a motivator and not a psychological trainer at all , rather I am still a struggler and sufferer in my own real life . And in my cases , I am compromising with them . I may sound like a looser , but I accepted the fact that , I can not drive everything as per own .
These days , regarding the lifestyle , mental happiness and so many other areas , I can have numberless lectures , books , and training . All these are well , if I can digest .
In my case , after a long struggle , I could achieve no proper answer regarding my life , rather I got only three simple questions for me to ask myself .
1) What is the ultimate meaning or purpose of my life to my own ?
2) What is the technical point with causality of a standard lifestyle to me ?
3) What is overall parameter to justify a standard life style for me in reality ?
4) What is the meaning of ballancing between a standard and happy life ?
5) How to stay happy ,maintaing a basic standard life ?
6)Though it is absured .But still few people always stay happy . So how to stay happy always ?
Answers came to me from my inner instinct in mostly paradoxical way . I was really conflicted within me . Within my own I faced a dualistic self entity on borderline . Conflict was on high between my concious and sub concious and unconcious level . It was hard for me to reject or accept one of my single entity as my whole . The real hard job for me was to detect properly my concious , sub concious and unconcious thinking . The more I searched , more I discovered and the overall result came to me as exactly opponent than my expectation .
I was not at all , what I thought to be and what I thought , that was not me .
I discovered myself to ignore the cause of my life and to focus the on the effect of life . The cause meant to my self entity and the effect was in reality for others.
I felt really tired to think that , the way I focused on others in my life - people were least up to me . Actually few were for me to be in my fight , rather most of them were waiting for their own light from me . Technically , I wanted to be glorified by others , not peacefull within me at all .
In the name of a standard lifestyle , I was running to kill the life of my own entity .
Actually I messed up so badly with the concept of life and lifestyle , I was dyeing within my own in an unknown way .
Next , when I was to justify the conceptual standard lifestyle - then my result came like a critical one . But technically it was good for me to get a hypothetical stand about standard lifestyle , as previously to me the concept of life came with numberless conflicts .
The standard "MEANING OF LIFESTYLE " was to me highly conflicing in multidimensional mode and having a conclussive point from there , was really absured for me .
LIFE + STYLE = LIFESTYLE .
1) To some people , it could be a life to be spent with style .
2) To some people , it could be a style to live the life .
To pick up the first one , I really had np problem as I aleady did that . Just I had to run , run and run -make gain , gain and and gain without having a proper reason . It was like a software to be updated regularly or to be invalid . I was fighting against the unlimited with limited ability.
I really do not know that , between these two , which one is right or wrong .
But today I opted the second one to follow. I believe the existing entity now of " COMPROMISE" between win and loss in life . It is like musical recital where I need to tune by up and downing the scale of various instruments and make their spaces .
Accepting the failures as a part of life is a stylish art and by ignoring the failures just running to win without any proper reason is an artistic crime to self .
The concept of standard lifestyle is varied from person to person . It is almost absured idea for anyone to fix it in a stable mode exactly when the earth is not stable in the universe .
In the name of a standard life style , I could be driven by my basic needs and priorities or somehow I could driven them a little as per own .
I made a ballancing path for me and thought that , without harming anyone , if I can stay well and happy , then it is my standard lifestyle .
Finally I came to my final question - " What is the ultimate parameter of the word "Standard life and lifestyle " ?
You believe me or not - I am not a spiritualist , not a so called scholar one and I find nothing new within me .
I came to a point , where I think any parameter to justify anything is not fixed at all .
Time and Space - these are the greatest factors for me to justify my standard stage . The time , that I am facing , seemingly not same to other at all and the space , that I am occupying , can not be afforded by other at all .
Each and every particle , in this universe as per the Physics , is based on the time and space factor .
If I count my lifespan as Time and my overall activities as space , then what the ultimate result is coming , that is change .
To me now , everything is the ultimate form of change along with the time and space . If time is the subject of life or space , then the life or space is the object of time .
Imagine , I have a nice family to live in and I have no time to be with them and on the other way , I have enough time to enjoy and I have no family and friend to enjoy - in both cases my family and my enough time are not working at all on me .
Once , here was a time , when Mamoth was a big creature on this earth and now they are not existing anymore . So Time replaced them .
Now we have a time , when the big and wild animals are not our enemy anymore . In most the cases , we are appearing to the wild animals in a friendly mode to protect them for our own interest . Now we are all busy to fight against unseen viruses like covid , cancer etc .
We once faught against the wild animals and now we are fighting against viruses .
How do we exist ?
We are existing as we were evoluted with the time and space factor .
So apart from Time and Space , there is no other standard parameter to justify the " Standard Life Style " .
No matter , if you agree or not with me - but you can leave your free opinion on this topic , in the comment section and I will be happy to reply. Thanks a lot for giving your time here .
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